Sis, I know life gets busy. Between work, family, and all the other hats we wear, it’s easy to forget how important it is to have fun, to relax, and to just be with your people.

But here’s the thing: self-care doesn’t have to be a solo act, and neither does play. Sometimes, the best way to recharge is to gather with your friends, laugh, and dive into something creative. And what better way to reconnect with your inner child than through the soothing act of coloring?

Now, I know you might be thinking: Coloring is for kids. But sis, it’s time to reclaim that narrative. Coloring is for us—and it’s the perfect excuse to pause the hustle, get together with your girls, and create something beautiful.

So here’s how to host a grown woman coloring night that’s fun, relaxing, and most importantly, full of soul care.

1. Create a Sacred Space for Creativity

The first step to a successful coloring night is setting the right vibe. This isn’t about rushed, messy play—it’s about creating a sacred space for connection and creativity. Think soft lighting, calming music, and a few cozy touches like blankets or pillows.

You want everyone to feel like they’re stepping into a space where they can unwind, leave stress behind, and let their creativity flow. Your space should invite peace—and if you want, you can even have a few light snacks or drinks on hand to set the mood.

2. Gather Your Supplies

Okay, now let’s talk about the fun stuff: the supplies. This is where you get to set the tone for the night. Grab a few Black Girl Slim coloring books, because I’m sure everyone will appreciate the beautiful images of Black women depicted in magical, whimsical ways. Coloring supplies are a must—colored pencils, gel pens, markers, and even some glitter pens if you want to go all out.

Be sure to have extra supplies for your friends who may not come fully prepared. Set up little stations with coloring tools so everyone can get right to it without waiting around. You could even create a mini Coloring Kit for each person to take home. Imagine how much fun your friends will have with the gift of their own creative supplies.

3. Set the Tone with Conversation

A grown woman coloring night is just as much about the conversations as it is about the coloring. Don’t just sit in silence! Let the conversation flow, but don’t feel like it needs to be deep all the time. Sometimes, all we need is a little laughter, some silly stories, and the comfort of being together.

But also, let’s be real: you’re going to want to make space for real talk, too. Encourage your girls to share, whether it’s about dreams, challenges, or new adventures. Creating together is one of the best ways to open up.

4. Play Some Music, Set the Vibe

Music is essential to any gathering. Whether you’re vibing out to soulful R&B, a fun playlist, or something that sets the mood for creativity, let the music bring the energy. It doesn’t hurt to have a playlist that keeps the good vibes flowing, but don’t worry if it’s not “perfect”—this is about you and your girls feeling free and comfortable.

5. Bring the Magic with a Purpose

Here’s where I get really excited: after your coloring night, let’s take it to the next level with a Culture & Sip event. Whether you’re hosting a Color & Sip or a Paint & Sip, you’re stepping into a space that’s all about creating and connecting.

Let’s be real: we’ve all been craving a way to reclaim joy as Black women. You can experience this magic in person with your crew at a Culture & Sip event. Not only will you and your friends be coloring, but you’ll also tap into a whole new level of community and creativity. Culture & Sip is your opportunity to reconnect with the part of you that needs to create, laugh, and let go of the stress of the week.

It’s easy to host your a Culture & Sip too—just gather 8 friends for a small Color & Sip party or invite 16 people for a larger event and let’s get creative together. From painting to coloring, laughing to bonding, this is how we heal, reclaim, and honor each other.